So me and a friend sat a tea house for a few hours this afternoon after work and ended up having a ridiculously deep conversation about how people are almost never honest about who they really are. Even with themselves. I think a lot of wear masks that even we begin to think is our true face.
By the way, the only excuse I can find for having this insanely philosophical conversation is my complete and utter lack of sleep (about 2.5 hours last night) and the upcoming election here in the US.
So here is some of what makes up me...I think
1. I am an extremely independent thinking woman, but I still love to be protected by a man in that damsel sort of way. This one is a big one.
2. I act a hell of a lot smarter that I feel.
3. I am materialistic. For whatever reason I flock to brand names.
4. I use my blondness to my advantage.
5. I have an ridiculous need to be liked. And it really upsets me when someone doesn't.
6. I always seem to be the 'guy' in a relationship (and guys seem to like pointing that out to me). Meaning I am usually the one who doesn't call, and is more laid back and nonchalant about the whole thing.
7. I am a very influencing person to others.
8. I almost never give people second chances (and could probably count on 1 hand the number of times I have). Guess that means I hold grudges and have no problem cutting someone from my life.
Me and Bee talked about all these things about myself and a bunch of things about her. It was scary and freeing all at the same time. Both admiting things to myself, and to another person.
So come on. Tell me something real about who you are.














Devious Comments
My flaws are more interesting, though, so I focus on those
I think its neat you and your friend could sit and have this discussion. I'd love to have someone to have conversations like that with. Would be awesome.
Who am I? I'm not really sure anymore. I could tell you my job and things about my roles in life. I know those things. Who I am has become a big question mark in the last six years.
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If I could tell the story in words, I wouldn't need to lug a camera. --Lewis Hine
I'm also fiercely loyal, loving (though I don't show it), intelligent, articulate, honest and reliable when it counts.
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Also, the perception I have of myself variates quite a bit from the way people see me..and sometimes it's hard to know which one is correct
I don't think I lie about who I am, I just don't show myself completely. I do think it's important to be honest to myself more than to others though.
Finally, It's difficult to talk to others about me, so thanks for this journal
4: My dirty blonde
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i have no flaws.
oops...i think that might be one
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i am 100% honest at all times, with people and with myself. it's just easier that way. too bad the people you know (or are generalizing about) are the opposite.
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If you can't laugh at yourself, you don't have the right to laugh at anyone else.
I am more insecure than you can imagine, and more confident than you can imagine at the same time.
I lie about myself to everyone, including myself.
When i figure it out, you'll be among the first to know <3
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Minus fierce.
<gaymanfrombarcelona> Honey, dere ain't nossin' fierce bout programmer clothes, *snaps* okayyyy??
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